SIDDHESH SHINDE

You are passionate about something, you have got a vision and you can see yourself being successful at it, that’s the exact unfortunate time when people hop in. Now they might not have the same vision or the same perspective. And most of the time they’ll be stubborn and try to not understand your perspective. Or they are not that open-minded enough to understand it. And trust me; such people don’t want to be wrong so they’ll try their best to talk you out of it. They bring in pessimism because if you notice they’ll mostly tell you all the drawbacks and the negative points if you choose to go down that path you envision. They question everything you have planned and then answer it themselves by considering the most “realistic view” of it and eventually get you all demotivated.   So when you have goals just keep them to yourself. Don’t go telling people and asking opinions because you know too many cooks spoil the broth . See, you know yourself better than anyone, so you don’t ...

              If you want to get something or someone, you have to work for it, right? But what has got everyone wrong is that no matter what happens you just have to work hard through it. Suffer, do underpaying jobs, work multiple shifts, exhaust yourself, wake up at 4 am and what not!           Just because you are suffering doesn’t mean you are going to be successful. And you don’t have to work at an underpaying job, know your worth and stand firm by it. You can wake up at 7am or 9am and still have a healthy routine. And if it is about a person, chasing is definitely something you should avoid. Being too nice, saying a few lies, or chasing them to choose you, isn’t going to work. You have to know that not every time is a time for chasing. Sometimes, in fact, these days most of the time, it’s just a trade. Be it business, be it a job or relations, it’s always a trade.  You have something...