BREAK FREE

Ever felt like you don’t fit in? And other people just advice you to blend and try to fit in, well don’t take that advice. See, when you feel like you don’t fit in a particular surrounding then you are getting closer to knowing yourself and if you just accept that advice and blend, you’ll probably lose the only chance you had to discover yourself. If you don’t fit, stay alone because it’s better to feel lonely when alone rather than being among people and feeling the same.


There’s a quote I follow which says, “UNKNOWINGLY you become like people you surround yourselves with.” So if you don’t feel like people around you can help you grow then leave! Remember, a smart person living with idiots is only as powerful as the idiots but an idiot living with smart people is as powerful as them. After all, it’s up to you to decide whether you want to look great for some weeks around people who are below you and eventually with time let them drag you to their level or you choose to be the person that lives with people more powerful than you and allow them to help you grow.

These days attaching strings is quite easy but cutting loose is quite difficult than its sounds. And if you don’t cut loose in time, the strings can pull you down into negativity.


Do you know there are 7 billion+ people and still growing on this earth? So even if you cut loose all your friends you’d still have enough x 100 people on earth to befriend. Look, as almost every product comes with an expiry date, so do people, and if you consume stuff after expiry it's toxic! Sanitize your head and remove all the negative and toxic people from your life and you’ll end up being happy.

HOW TO TURN WHAT YOU JUST READ INTO REALITY


Every month try to make at least one new friend and remove a friend from your friend list.

If you can't do it in reality then try doing on social media platforms like Instagram or Facebook.

So this way in a year you would have 12 new friends that will teach you what the 12 people you removed over the year didn’t.

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