SIDDHESH SHINDE

LIFE IS BASED ON THESE THREE PRINCIPLES: COPY, EDIT AND PASTE. If you are going to create something different or create something new then this is not for you. COPYING Humans have the tendency to copy things. That’s why we have trends and terms like the ‘bandwagon effect.’ We see people eating a particular food and we feel like trying it too. How do gyms work? People see others working out, getting in shape and they get influenced, they get motivated and then, they COPY THEM. Everything that you are doing today has been done before. You, I, and everyone else are just copying. What you are learning right now has already been studied. The job you are at right now, somebody else had it, and after you, there’s someone else who’s going to have it. The things that you are doing today: a ton of other people have done it, are doing it or will be doing it. Who are you? A doctor, an engineer, a lawyer, a teacher, whoever you are, there are millions of others like you. So, find people...

  Ever been in a situation where you were confident about something and then it turned out that you were wrong?   So, how did you react to it? You could obviously debate about the topic, that’s completely fine but, what if you were completely proven wrong?   Well, this is a crucial point, because now, how you react about it tells a lot about you.   If you are a fan of Sherlock Holmes, you’d know that it’s all about the details; the minute things.   Life is not about changing just one thing and boom; you turn into an alpha. No. It doesn’t work like that. The minute details tell a lot about you, your character and your personality. Source: i.scdn.co/image/ab67616d0000b273d68fb9d84144ffb45dd3e513 When you change your opinion and accept that your prior opinion was wrong, that’s called acceptance . And I feel that accepting you were wrong is difficult but, very necessary for growth. On the contrary, if you secretly change your opinion and/or refuse to accept that y...

    Happiness is a choice. It’s a m entality; it’s an attitude. Can money bring happiness? Can success bring happiness? Can good things happening to you, bring, happiness? NO! They can’t bring happiness but, they can maximize it. If you have a pessimistic and sadistic attitude then nothing mentioned above is going to make you happy.   See, happiness is a perspective in life. If you have an optimistic approach to everything happening around you, it’s easy for you to be happy, in probably any situation.    Your positive energy or positive attitude is like, a small campfire burning. And success and money is fuel. You very well know what happens when you add fuel to fire. Definitely, you’ll be happier! But, if you don’t have that fire burning, guess what’s going to happen with the fuel? It’s going to be poured and poured and poured and WASTED. So when they say money can’t buy happiness, this is what they mean.

When you are having blues or when you feel lonely or you feel emotions that make you sulk, what do you usually do to improve the situation? Well, talking to someone does help, but when you’re in such a phase, you barely want to talk to anyone. Or maybe there’s nobody available to talk with you. So, the next thing you do is maybe try to check something motivational to improve your mood, right? intentionalinspirations.com/motivation-guest-post/ Also, you know that vibe you get when you watch something motivational and then you’re like I’m going to get in shape, I’m going to start working out or I’m going to follow my passion or I’m going to start something new… 15 days later, FULL STOP.    See, motivational speeches, blogs or videos are only going to help you on a temporary basis. Even though you watch, read or hear them, you still aren't able to act on them for more than a week. Do you know why? Nobody knows why! They keep making those motivational videos but they don't solve...

Age 16-25 we don’t really know what we are good at; what we want to do with our life; what we are made for! This is the time when you try different things, and it’s even better when you FAIL at those. Well when you don’t know something, you have two options. One, you can sit back and let yourself age, complete the degree, and then assume that it’ll all come to you, or option two, you can just go out there TRY AND FAIL; or possibly succeed.   Well, people are so obedient; they wait for them to receive their degree to be given the “PERMISSION” to do something. WHY! Why can’t you start something before you get the degree, unless you’re a doctorate student, then, of course, you need permission haha. If you’re learning fashion, architecture or fine arts then try making your own designs; you’re learning some new language, start writing; if you’re studying engineering, start fixing things or try creating a product; go do internships, go work for free (money doesn’t matter at this age. Yo...

A lot of you must be familiar with F.R.I.E.N.D.S., right? There’s this one scene where Joey says, “Moo point. It’s like a cow’s opinion. It doesn’t matter. It’s Moo!” Well, it’s funny but it is also quite interesting and adaptable. Let me tell you how.  You’ve been judged quite many times right? Felt embarrassed because someone was laughing at you or someone wasn’t happy with your attire/fashion sense or you’ve been body shamed and made feel little of yourself, and many different reasons. Well, of all those people who have judged you till now or who have OVER-CRITICIZED you, are they still in your life? Probably not, because most of them were strangers or people you don’t know, or, were friends who had a shorter lifespan in your life. (As I have said in one of my previous blogs, like products, people in your life come with an expiration date too. And if you don’t remove them, it’s toxic!) See society is a whole bunch of hypocrites. So if you do something,  WHY DID YOU DO...

Life is like a rollercoaster. It has ups and downs. IF there are no downs, life would be boring. The ups and downs make life exciting.   Imagine a rollercoaster that is just going up. Just slowly climbing and climbing and climbing.   It’s no fun. You would reach great heights, but no fun! Life isn’t just about going up, earning money, and being lucky. Life is about enjoying it. If it’s not fun then what’s the point of living one? Also, What if nothing bad ever happened to you? What if you always remained happy? It seems good but it’s like eating the same dish forever. At some point, you are going to get bored! See, the thing is, unless there is sadness in your life you won’t understand the value of happiness. Money can’t buy happiness but money can buy you things that make you happy.   Although, don’t develop materialistic happiness. Today you got it, you are happy.   Tomorrow you lose it, boom! Welcome to stress, tension and depression. How to be happy? If i...