DOES THIS EVEN WORK?

When you are having blues or when you feel lonely or you feel emotions that make you sulk, what do you usually do to improve the situation? Well, talking to someone does help, but when you’re in such a phase, you barely want to talk to anyone. Or maybe there’s nobody available to talk with you. So, the next thing you do is maybe try to check something motivational to improve your mood, right?

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Also, you know that vibe you get when you watch something motivational and then you’re like I’m going to get in shape, I’m going to start working out or I’m going to follow my passion or I’m going to start something new… 15 days later, FULL STOP.  

See, motivational speeches, blogs or videos are only going to help you on a temporary basis. Even though you watch, read or hear them, you still aren't able to act on them for more than a week. Do you know why? Nobody knows why! They keep making those motivational videos but they don't solve the problems that are actually faced during enacting them! The simple reason that can be, is you don't see anyone around you do it. As a child, you copied what your parents or guardians did and that's how you got into it. As you grew older, you saw your friends play a game and then you wanted it too. That’s a reason why gyms work so well! People see others working out, other muscular people around them, which make us, want to have, what they have, and then we work on it.

We see something, but we are not able to achieve it. So we desire it. And eventually, we make efforts for it. So if daily you see what you desire, you'll end up working for it. IT’S THAT SIMPLE. So that’s why it is important to surround yourself with people who have the same goals as you. There are high chances that you'll definitely achieve your goals.

These days being sad, lonely and bored is easier than before. So self-motivation or motivational speeches don't quite help all the time. But! If your surrounding is positive, encouraging and supportive you'll get out of the depressed phase of your life and also would achieve your goals.

If you are stuck in a group of people that have completely different thinking than you; they don't understand you, and if your goals and purpose in life are different, then you'll end up lonely, lazy, and without a purpose. READ IT AGAIN.

 

 


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